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53 - Chester, Cheshire, England

My glass is half full, I would like to share life’s mysteries and magic with someone who isn’t afraid to take...

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53 - Andover, Hampshire, England

Im good fun, good company, loyal with his own hair and very nearly all his own teeth. Love outdoors, sports,...

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52 - Enfield, London, England

Independent, curious, and still optimistic about finding the right person. I appreciate intelligence, wit, and...

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About UrbanSocial UK Dating Site

Welcome to UrbanSocial - one of the best online UK dating sites for sociable singles looking to spark up their search for love.

If you're looking to find like-minded singles to date, you've come to the right place. Since 2003, UrbanSocial has been helping single men and women find someone special through our online dating service.

Don't wait for love to find you. It's time to get active, and start connecting with genuine professional singles who you might otherwise never meet in real life. Our UK dating site helps all sorts of singles meet well-matched dates.

Whoever your perfect date is, we're sure we can help. But don't take our word for it. Sign up now for free, and take a look around.

Your tools to find your perfect match

Discover up to 1000 matches with our intelligent two-way matching feature.
Find someone special with one of our many search options and add those you like to your Favourites.
When you're ready, contact members using an easy and private messaging interface.
See what you have in common with others at a glance.
You're in control - block members who do not meet your standards or report unsavoury members.

Ensuring Safe Dating Online

Looking after our members means ensuring we provide nothing but a safe online dating site experience.

All singles on our UK dating site can rest assured their safety and security is constantly well protected.

Only genuine singles are able to join our dating service thanks to a team of human moderators who manually verify all new dating profiles and photos that are submitted to our site. This means we are a dating site with real profiles.

Our members also have complete control over who they want to contact, and have the freedom to stop, block or report other dating members should they wish.

Our privacy policy and data guarantee means that members can relax in the knowledge that their personal information is kept private and secure at all times.

We also recommend our members keep in mind our online dating safety tips when messaging others and meeting up for first dates.

Ensuring Safe Dating
Getting Started Online

Make Your Dating Profile Stand Out

The first step to getting started online dating is to create a great online dating profile about yourself.

While it might be tempting to just write a sentence or two, with online dating, it really is a case of you get out what you put in.

With so many singles online, first impressions count, so it's worth taking the time to think about your online dating profile.

Your introduction should be interesting, honest, and approachable for the singles reading it.

Highlight things about you that can be conversation starters and help give potential partners something to write to you about in their first message.

For more helpful tips and advice, head over to our award-winning online dating blog.

Taking The Best Dating Profile Photo

A great dating profile needs to be matched with a top-notch dating profile picture.

Dating online isn't blind dating, so if you want to meet genuine singles, you'll need to look like one, which means having a dating profile picture.

The quality of your dating profile photo dramatically affects your online dating experience, so spend some time creating a good one. Here's some simple tips:

Some angles are far more flattering than others. Position the camera straight on or slightly higher than your face to find the best angle. Have a bright source of light pointing towards directly in front of your face.

Minimise background distractions by making your face the largest part of the photo, and keep anything behind you plain or tidy.

A smile is the most attractive thing you can wear and makes you appear welcoming.

Creating the Best Dating Profile Photo

Success Stories

Tara, 04 July 2026
Thank you so much - I really appreciate your help and support!
Sue, 19 October 2025
He lives ten miles away and my absolute perfect match. He ticks all my boxes AND many more and even our dogs are finding romance ('puppy love' lol!) I feel I've "come home" in his arms. Thank you very much all! Sending love! xxx
Pamela, 26 June 2026
After many disappointments I decided to stop dating and was just going to have the one last date. Imagine my amazement when it turned out that he seems to be the one. Early days yet but we are both very optimistic.

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Feedback from members we've helped in the past.

Sue, 10 September 2025
Thank you, I'm very pleased you're vigilant.
Christine, 28 January 2026
Thanks for all your help and your patience.
Jane, 25 August 2025
That all sounds brilliant. Thank you so much for “looking after me”.